State-Wise Wedding Traditions of India
How weddings are done in Tamil Nadu, Kerala, Bengal, Punjab, Gujarat and other states, the customs each family follows, and what they mean.
These guides explain how weddings are done in each state and community. A Tamil wedding is over by lunch and centres on the thali. A Punjabi wedding runs for days, with jaggo and chooda before the pheras or the laavan. A Bengali bride is carried around the groom seven times before the couple first look at each other.
Each guide lists the rituals in order, what each one means, and what the bride and groom usually wear. Customs differ even between two families in the same town, so treat these as the common pattern and ask an elder for your family's own way.
We do not print muhurat dates on these pages. Fix the date with your family priest or astrologer, who will check both horoscopes.
All Guides on Wedding Traditions by State
Wedding Traditions by StateBohra Wedding Rituals in OrderHow a Dawoodi Bohra wedding usually runs, from the proposal and nisbat to raza, misaaq, the nikah, the family rasams and the thaal, with notes on Rasme Saifee mass weddings and what guests should know.6 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateBengali Muslim Wedding Rituals, Step by StepThe usual order of a Bengali Muslim wedding in West Bengal, with paan-chini, gaye holud, mehendi, the nikah, kabin nama and denmohor, gate dhora, rukhsati, walima or bou bhaat, and phirani, plus how it differs from a Bengali Hindu wedding.6 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateBengali Wedding Rituals in Order, from Aashirbaad to Bou BhaatThe order of a Bengali Hindu wedding over three or four days, what shubho drishti, kanakanjali and kaal ratri mean, the clothes and food, and the months families avoid.7 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateGujarati Wedding Rituals in Order, Gol Dhana to Ghar Nu LaxmiThe lagna vidhi of a Gujarati wedding in order, why there are four mangal pheras, what mameru, ponkhvu and aeki beki are, the panetar and gharchola, and the food.6 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateIndian Wedding Traditions, State by StateWhat all Hindu weddings in India share, how North, South, West, East and North-East Indian weddings differ, a comparison table, and how to blend two traditions.7 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateMarathi Wedding Rituals in Order, Sakharpuda to GrihapraveshThe lagna vidhi of a Marathi wedding in order, what antarpat, mangalashtak, kelvan and rukhwat mean, the nauvari and mundavalya, the food, and when the wedding season starts.6 min read
Wedding Traditions by StatePunjabi Wedding Rituals Step by Step, Roka to DoliEvery common Punjabi wedding ritual in order, with which ones are Hindu, Sikh or shared, the number of days, what the bride and groom wear, and muhurat customs.7 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateSouth Indian Wedding Rituals, Tamil, Telugu, Kannada and KeralaThe rituals all South Indian Hindu weddings share, what is special in each of the four states, the bride's look, and a comparison table of timing, the main moment and the food.6 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateTamil Wedding Rituals in Order, from Nichayathartham to ThaliThe order of a Tamil wedding over two or three days, what happens at panda kaal, nalangu, kashi yatra, oonjal and mangalya dharanam, the clothes and food, and the months families avoid.7 min read
Wedding Traditions by StateTelugu Wedding Rituals in Order, Pelli Choopulu to AppagintaluThe order of a Telugu wedding (pelli), what jeelakarra bellam and talambralu mean, why the bride is carried in a basket, the clothes, and the months families avoid.7 min read
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